FAQ- Does Buying and Reselling Take Advantage of People?

FAQ- Does Buying and Reselling Take Advantage of People?

Recently we’ve had a few negative comments (2 total) on the blog and social media, and while we know those come with the territory of putting yourself out there on the internet, we wanted to address their concern.  Both comments basically said that we were greedy for making money on things that people need. I am not going to link to them, but we left the comments up on both the blog and our Facebook page because we thought we would just address it: Does buying and reselling take advantage of people? 

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These comments threw us off guard a little because first of all, we take pride in our integrity. We want to live a life that we are proud of and be a good

influence for our kids. And second, we don’t feel like we are taking advantage of people when they are buying from us. We don’t feel like the grocery stores are taking advantage of us by making money off of our need to eat. Melissa doesn’t feel like Target takes advantage of us because they make money on from our kid’s clothes. I don’t feel like Amazon Prime takes advantage of me because I order parts or something on there almost every other day.  (Well, maybe I do feel like they take a little bit of advantage of my buying habits.) 🙂  But, you get the point. Businesses are powered by solving problems and fulfilling needs.

The particular item that one lady was talking about was a prosthetic foot. She felt like I was taking advantage of someone who had a need for the foot. But, in reality, if we didn’t sell the customer the prosthetic foot for $250, he would have had to spend hundreds of dollars if not thousands more to get a new one. He saved money because I spent my Saturday morning at the flea market. Also, if I wouldn’t have bought the foot to sell, it would still be sitting in the bottom of a junk basket at the flea market. The vendor that I bought it from might have even thrown it in the trash because he looked freaked out by it and wanted it gone.

I want my customers to be happy with their purchase . They are getting an item at a lower cost then they can buy in the store so saving money is a big benefit to them. Another benefit to some of my customers is that they may have not been able to find that item anywhere else.  I come across some unique things and it takes a specific person who is looking for it. (How many people are looking for a deal on a prosthetic foot on eBay?) Another thing is no one is forcing anyone to buy anything from me. It’s not like we are selling the last cup of water on earth and charging $1 Million dollars for it.

I would love to be able to hunt for treasures and just give them to people who need them, but the reality is we have a mortgage to pay and three little kiddos to feed too. Maybe one day it will all just be for fun and I can post things for free, but for now, our family depends on our eBay sales. Buying and reselling items pays our bills.

I would also like to address another part of this question. Does buying items at a low price take advantage of the people I buy from?

I buy from a good variety of people, but a large portion are from vendors at the flea market. Since I have been going to the same flea market for a couple years now, I have gotten to know several of the vendors I buy from. Many of them know that I sell on eBay and will even tell me what an item is selling for on eBay in order to get me to buy it.  Even if they don’t know I am looking for items to flip, I don’t feel bad buying from them because they are making money on me, and usually repeat business. Many of these vendors buy large bins of items from Salvation Army at their auction or buy old storage units and sell everything off at the flea market for a profit.  So even when I am paying less than the value of an item, they are still making their profit on me – and I want them too! I help keep them in business and they help keep me in business.

I also buy from people I find on Craigslist, Offer Up, eBay, and Facebook.  These people typically are looking to get rid of an item to clean out their house and/or make some extra cash. I don’t feel bad for buying from them either because they are wanting to sell.  If they wanted to, they could take the time to look up the item, put some elbow grease in it, and post it in the best place to make the most money, but most of the time people don’t want to take the time and just want it sold and gone.

Everyone involved is benefiting from these buying and reselling transactions, not just myself.  The people I am buying from are looking to sell their item and make some money. I give them their money and take the item off their hands. I take the time to clean it up if necessary, take good pictures, and post it for any potential buyers. My buyers are either looking for a good deal or looking for a specific item and I am able to provide both of those for them. It’s a win-win-win situation.

I do all my buying and reselling with integrity. I do negotiate price on both ends, but not to anything unfair. And if either the buyer or the seller want the price higher or lower, nobody is forcing them to sell to me or buy from me.  I will also disclose everything I know about an item before selling it, including any defects or any issue that may be wrong with the item that I am aware of. I never try to sneak a defect by anyone. That is definitely not my style, and even if it was, I wouldn’t be able to keep a good standing with eBay if I did that.

I don’t think anyone thinks Mike and Frank of American Pickers are taking advantage of people when they are picking through items. They are doing the same thing I do: finding cool things to buy from people at a deal and selling them to people looking for those things. We are all providing a service to people looking for a good deal. I don’t believe that buying and reselling is taking advantage of any party involved.

“One man’s junk is another man’s treasure”

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Rob Stephenson
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I grew up in Central Florida and have lived here my whole life. I first got into buying and selling items when I was 16 years old, and have been hooked ever since. It has mostly been a hobby that makes some extra cash, but sometimes it serves as my main income as well. I don't plan on stopping any time soon. I find too many fun toys for my family (or myself), and just love the whole process.

  • Anonymous
    Posted at 04:26h, 28 April Reply

    What a great reply

  • Stacy Gallego
    Posted at 15:54h, 13 November Reply

    I really enjoyed this explanation. I think there is the occasional person that may think that about us that we are taking advantage. But everything you said is exactly what it is. I am buying from people who agree on the price and we are both happy. I have on occasion, if I felt like it was a single mom who could use the money, explained that they could sell it on eBay for a bigger profit. But almost 100% of the time, they are not interested and they would just like the item gone for what they are asking for it. When that happens, I love being able to help them with that! Flipping is a wonderful, fun opportunity and a blessing that we can have fun and make a living! Yay for flipping!

    • Robert Stephenson
      Posted at 20:24h, 13 November Reply

      Love it Stacy! Yes, almost all the flea market vendors I buy from regularly know that I sell on eBay. They could totally do it themselves, but they choose not to and would just rather sell it for a smaller profit to me. It works out for everyone!

  • Alisha Tuschewski
    Posted at 23:07h, 22 October Reply

    I really appreciate your open, and honest explanation of your line of work. I personally sell vintage on Etsy and often I am reluctant to talk about my shop and I worry that I will get negative feedback. I think that people don’t realize that not only are we not taking advantage, but it is a lot of work buying, cleaning, fixing, researching, organizing… and on and on. Quite often, all things considered, my profit is quite small. Often I only break even. But I love vintage and so I also enjoy finding and cleaning and researching these items I choose because they are things I personally have an interest in. You gave me an example of how I can describe what it is that I do when asked. ThanksA

    • Robert Stephenson
      Posted at 21:08h, 27 October Reply

      Thank you Alisha for taking the time to comment. It is tough and we used to be more reserved about talking about it. But now my vendors know I sell on eBay, and a lot of my customers know that I am a finder of random things. Most of the times my items take a little tinkering or cleaning up and it does take work to sell them. People will see your work and know you put time into it, and if they don’t – no worries. It only matters what your buyers think of your pieces.

  • Noreen
    Posted at 11:23h, 12 July Reply

    I think what you are doing is fine. Your “foot” story made me recall something that happened to me. I am a breast cancer survivor (15 years out now) and had an accumulation of prosthetic breasts. I finally went forward with corrective surgery & I wanted to donate them. NO ONE WOULD TAKE THEM, They were in perfect condition and a breast is not terribly difficult to fit. I would think much less difficult than a foot. I called everywhere, shelters, thrift stores, facilities that pride themselves in outfitting women with used clothes so they can feel comfortable at job interviews and at work. I think it’s a racket. Insurance wants to give you a new one every year at no cost and I didn’t think I needed one every year. I hate seeing crutches, wheelchairs, and walkers etc in the trash. I wish I had known about flipping when I had these prosthetics. I ended up putting them in the Goodwill collection trailer even though they didn’t want them when I called. Don’t know what they did with them?

    • Robert Stephenson
      Posted at 12:49h, 12 July Reply

      Wow Noreen. Congrats on your 15 years! That is awesome! And it is crazy that the donation places don’t want them. I am someone could use them! I bet eBay would have been the perfect spot to sell those. People turn to it to find some crazy things!

  • Ismael C
    Posted at 20:32h, 11 July Reply

    Hi Rob,
    That was a great defense of your business, bravo! There’s really nothing to add however one more expense that you incur is what is called an opportunity cost. In economics an opportunity cost is defined as “the loss of potential gain from other alternatives when one alternative is chosen”;”idle cash balances represent an opportunity cost in terms of lost interest”(source: Google). As a seller you dedicate time to sourcing, listing, and shipping these items and in turn you give up an alternative activity that may or may not be just as beneficial to dedicate this time to run your business. Time is definitely worth money and it is in finite supply.

    • Robert Stephenson
      Posted at 21:03h, 11 July Reply

      thanks Ismael! That is a great addition! It definitely takes up time. Time that I mostly enjoy, but there are also things that I don’t too. Time is definitely a limited resource.

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